Tuesday, July 31, 2012

When Friends Drift Apart & Friendship Ends...

...what do you do?

Have you ever been pushed aside by someone you thought was a great friend? I know friends drift apart all the time, and it genuinely upsets me. I've drift away from friends in the past, and I guess it was both our faults for not keeping in contact somehow. But what do you do when you keep in contact with a friend, then they start ignoring you, pushing you away? It's not nice, I'll tell you that much.

I was one of the few people that this friend could trust, tell anything to. It was someone I told things to...we talked a lot, I was always there. I know I've never done/said a thing to hurt or upset them, I'm not like that...yet they're just ignoring me. I've tried to keep contact with this friend, but they ignore it. So I can safely say, I'm not to blame in this situation. I've asked for an explanation, which has also been ignored. I have seriously tried, time and time again, to talk to this friend, yet it goes unnoticed. I'm done. 

It's quite sad, because I don't have many friends. So the friends that I do have, I tend to hold them close to my heart and always be there for them. I know I'm a good friend.

My question is...how do you know when a friendship is actually over? How long should you try to salvage the friendship? There's only so much you can do, but when is enough? A month? A year? You could say we've both changed, which is true, but we only talked normally maybe a two months ago. I still care for and I still love this friend to bits, but I'm not sure where to go from here. One thing's for sure though...

"False friends are worse than open enemies"

What do you do when a friendship ends?


  1. It's sad when that happens - hope you're okay!
    Well written xoxo

  2. Cry & grab some Ben anda Jerrys


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